0 – 9 (Section 1: Escort Terms)
3G: Get In. Get off. Get out.
411: Information gathered about an Escort.
420 or 420 friendly: An Escort that will smoke marijuana with you.
69: Performing mutual oral sex.
$: The dollar sign (or group of dollar signs) is sometimes used to illustrate the price range of the services implied. For example, $ = $100, $$ = $200, $$$ = $300 and so on.
A – B (Section 2: Escort Terms)
AAMP: Apartment-based Asian massage parlor, as opposed other kind of facilities.
ABC: American-born Chinese, known also as “banana”: yellow on the outside, white in the inside.
ABJ: American-born Japanese.
A-Level: A-Level/Greek: both words mean anal sex/anal sexual intercourse (A-Level is more common in Britain). The penetration of the anus by the penis isn’t commonly offered because it requires a high level of trust between the couple in order to follow the necessary instructions to make the experience pleasant for both. Nevertheless, it is always possible to find someone who does it.
Abrasion: Rubbing the body with a variety of materials from raw silk to leather to sandpaper.
Adult Baby Creche: A parent-child roleplay with one participant taking care of another. Also called age play, it can include the wearing and changing of diapers as well as bottle feeding.
Agency: An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session.
Age play: Scenes in which at least one participant pretends to be significantly younger than he or she actually is.
All covered: Also all covered play. With condom. With Protection.
Amazon: A tall, strong and often masculine woman.
AMP: Asian Massage Parlor.
Animal Play: Animal transformation fantasy: Games and scenes in which a person acts or dresses like a dog, cat, etc. See also pony boy and pony girl.
AO: Only attends Asian clients.
ASP: Adult Service Provider.
Analingus: Also known as “Asian”: oral stimulation of the anus.
Around The World: Can have 3 different meanings: Rimming. Oral sex on the anus of either sex; Three acts in a session: oral, vaginal and also anal; Analingus and fellatio.
Asian: Also known as “Analingus”: oral stimulation of the anus.
Asian Cowgirl: Cowgirl with girl squatting.
ATF: All Time Favorite.
ATM: Ass to Mouth. Penis, finger or toy gets out of receiver’s anus, and goes directly into the partners’ mouth.
Attempts: The Escort allows multiple attempts per session if the client is able and interested.
Aunt Flo: Menstruation, period. She is “being visited by Aunt Flo”.
B&D: Bondage and Discipline.
B&S: Describes a situation where the Escort advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, that do not match the actual Escort that shows up.
Babyback: Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.
Baby dyke: A young lesbian or someone who is just! coming out of the closet”.
Bag: Condom, with a condom, e.g. “BJ in a bag” = CBJ or “I filled the bag” = orgasm.
Baja Sur: Genitals. From the Spanish “the low south”… of the body.
Balloons: Breast implants.
BB: Without a condom.
Barracuda: An Escort whose only purpose is to get your money as quickly as possible, preferably without “giving” anything in return.
Batin: Groin massage, and can also mean hand job (originally from Malaysia).
BBBJ: This acronym stands for “Bareback Blow Job”, and it means fellatio without a condom. With the discovery of AIDS, it started to be considered by everybody as very unsafe, but meanwhile researchers have failed to prove any substantial connections to the disease and this practice has been growing on popularity again. Nevertheless, it involves some risks related to Hepatitis B, venereal warts and herpes.
BBBJNQNS: Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion including swallowing the sperm.
BBBJTC: Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the mail sex to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow according with the moment).
BBBJTCWS: Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.
BBBJWF: Bareback Blowjob with Facial.
BBFS: Sexual intercourse without condom.
BBK: Big beautiful knockers.
BBW: See Top 10
BCD: Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will only be described to a privileged person or kept a complete secret.
BDSM: See Top 10
Bear: A large hairy (homosexual) man.
Beard: A person of the opposite sex who marries or simulates dating a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In some cases some of them are gay.
Beret: A condom.
BFE: Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by Escorts to describe good Clients.
birdwatching: BBBJTCWS or CIM and the Escort swallows.
Bisexual: A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.
Blue pill or blue steel: Viagra.
BJ: Blow job, fellatio, French. Oral stimulation of the penis.
BL: Body Licking.
BLS: Ball Licking and Sucking.
BNG: Blow-n-go, a 15-minute oral-only session.
Body-Rub: A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of “massage”, usually to indicate sexual stimulation (normally a hand job) is included and the person performing it is not licensed as a massage therapist.
Bondage chair: A piece of furniture, sometimes a very complex one, with varying number of restraints to keep a sub at Dom’s mercy.
Boston Marriage: In the late nineteenth century, it was usual for two unmarried women to share a house. These relationships became known as the “Boston Marriages”.
Bottom: In homosexual parlance: the passive partner. In BDSM: the submissive.
Breath control: A type of BDSM play in which the Dom controls the Sub‘s access to oxygen. Can be very dangerous.
Brown eye: Anus.
Brown shower: Defecation on your partner.
BS: Body Slide. Service where the Escort may slide their body on the client’s body using oil.
BSB: Bus stop babe.
Bukkake: A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men.
Bulldagger: A term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian.
Bulldyke: A very masculine lesbian.
Businessmen-only, Gentlemen-only or Professional-only: A subjective request used in Escort advertising as a pre-screen for clients.
Butch: A woman who adopts what could be considered masculine characteristics.
Butter face: A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. Everything looks good except her face.
C – D (Section 3: Escort Terms)
Camp: Effeminate male – from KAMP, also known As Male Prostitute.
Kanine, K9: Please see Doggy style.
Cash and Dash: A rip-off. The person posing as an Escort shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance”, and leves with the cash.
CBJ: Covered Blow Job. Blowjob with a condom on.
CBT: Cock and ball torture: application of clamps, cages, weights, wax, etc. to male genitals as either punishment or tease and denial. Can be very dangerous.
CC Rider: An Escort who is FS for $200/hr. or less. The “CC” bit is the Roman numeral for 200.
CCL: Concentration Camp Look.
CD: cross-dresser. A person, and normally a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite gender, for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
CDS: Covered Doggy Style.
CFM: Come Fuck Me, usually referring to the look of a person.
CFS: Covered Full Service. Sexual intercourse (sex) with a condom.
CG: Cowgirl: she’s on top facing you.
Chump: A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any “pussy” in return.
CIF: Cum in Face
CID: Cum In Deep. The provider lets you come inside her with no condom.
CIH: Cum in Hair.
CIM: Cum In Mouth, assuming a context of fellatio without a condom, the experience is carried on and is rewarded with the ejaculation in the mouth. The ejaculation can be done on a condom (NQBC) or directly in the mouth. On the other hand when the ejaculation is done in the mouth, the sperm can be spitted (NBBS) our swallowed (NQNS).
Civilian: A person who makes them self-available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than an Escort and more interested in a relationship. Not to be confused with non-pro.
CL: Craig’s List. The classifieds board of the internet, and formerly a free place for providers to advertise.
Clock watcher: An Escort who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe an Escort who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
CMD: Carpet Matches Drapes (typically used by natural blondes).
CMP: Chinese Massage Parlor.
CMT: Certified Massage Therapist. Generally a CMT is not an Escort. While an Escort specializing in massage services might be a CMT, it is unwise to assume that a CMT is an Escort. Very unwise.
COB: See Top 10
COF: Cum On Face. Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or facial.
COH: Cum on Hair.
Cottage: To cottage: to look for sexual partners in public bathrooms. Synonym: to cruise.
Coitus: Sexual intercourse characterized by the male penis entering the female vagina.
Collar and cuffs match: A euphemism to indicate that their pubic hair color matches color of the hair on the head.
COM: Cum Over Mouth (during fellatio without a condom).
Commercial Company: A euphemism for prostitution generally used by the truckers.
Completion: Reach the Orgasm
Cover: The condoms.
Covered: Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. (e.g. Covered Blowjob means a condom was used.).
Cowgirl: Performing sexual intercourse with the girl on top. Sometimes it is abbreviated to CG, but keep in mind that CG can also mean Call Girl, depending on the specific context. This term has also some very popular variations: Reverse Cowgirl (woman is on top, but facing the man’s feet) and Asian Cowgirl (as the regular cowgirl but this time the woman has both feet on the bed raising the whole body up and down during the penetration).
Crime Scene Action: Sexual activity during the provider’s period (while menstruating).
Crone: The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman, a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she be treated with respect.
Cruising: Looking for prostitutes while driving. Cyber-equivalents aren’t hard to imagine.
Crushing: Fetish relating to dominance and control; a desire to see small, defenseless animals crushed under women’s high heels.
Cunnilingus: Oral stimulation of a woman’s genitalia.
Cups of Coffee: Meaning Orgasms.
Dance and dash: A rip-off. The person posing as an Escort shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance”, and leaves with the cash.
DAP: Digital anal probe, see digital penetration, aka digits.
Date: It might mean a session with an Escort or a person who patronizes an Escort.
DATO: Dining At The O it means Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus.
DATY: See Top 10
DDE: Doesn’t Do Extras. Implies the Escort has a very limited and stringently adhered to menu.
DDF: Drug and Disease Free.
DDG: Drop Dead Gorgeous.
DDP: Double Digit Penetration (the vagina and anus are included).
Deep Throat or DT: A fellatio where the whole length of a penis is “swallowed”.
Defender: A hobbyist who defends of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are correct.
Deposit: A payment in advance of a session.
DFE: Dead Fish Experience.
DFF: Dead Fish Fuck.
DFK: See Top 10
Diesel Dyke: A very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is normally very aggressive.
Digital Penetration: Insertion of the fingers (or even toes) in the vagina or anus for sexual stimulation.
Dirty Sanchez: When two people perform anal sex, then the person who has been ‘doing it’ to the other’s ass takes his penis or dildo and rubs it on the other person’s upper lip making a “moustache”.
DIY: Do It Yourself: masturbation.
Doggie Style: Rear entry position for sexual intercourse.
Dominant: In BDSM is used to designate a person who administers the training to a submissive. Often shortened to Dom.
Donation: A euphemism to avoid using the term payment to an Escort
Double Penetration: When a person has two objects/penises simultaneously inserted in two of her holes (mouth, anus or vagina).
Doubles: A threesome with two Escorts.
DP: Double Penetration or Digital Penetration.
Drag King: A woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not necessarily.
Drag Queen: A male who dresses like a female, usually for performance.
DSL: Dick-sucking lips.
DT or Deep Throat: Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is actually “swallowed” by the mouth.
Dyke: Another word used for lesbian. A straight person using this word it may offend the other.
E – G (Section 4: Escort Terms)
ED: Erectile Dysfunction.
EE: Erotic Enema.
Ellie: Law Enforcement. The expression “LE” phonetically is similar to that female name, “Ellie“.
EMA: Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage, but before being divorced.
EMP: European Massage Parlor (performed by Caucasian girls).
English: Segment of bondage and discipline that includes spanking/whipping.
Enhancements: Implants, most commonly breast implants, but may also be penile implants.
Envelope: Often cash payments for an Escort’s services are placed in an envelope to make this ritual as soft as possible
EOM: End of Message. Used in a subject line of a forum post to indicate no further content in body of message—where the title is intended to be sufficient.
Escort (definition): An escort is an Adult entertainer who is compensated for his or her time and companionship.
Escort Mall, Mall: A website that advertises many different Escorts. They may be independent or belong to an agency.
F2F: A female is doing something to a female.
F2M: A female is doing something to a male.
Face Painting: Man ejaculating on woman’s face.
Face Sitting: In BDSM, is used as form of erotic humiliation, the dom sits on the face of a sub to force her to oral-genital/anal contact.
Facial: Man ejaculates on a woman’s face.
Fag Hag: A woman who likes homosexual males.
Fairy: A male gay.
FBSM: See Top 10
Fellatio: Oral stimulation of the penis.
Femme: A feminine lesbian.
FDAU: Face down, ass up.
FFF: Designating the strategy of “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them”.
Fisting: The act or art of putting a fist in an anus or vagina. Allegedly a very popular practice among kinkier homosexuals (done with care and lube)
FIA: Finger in Ass.
FIR: Finger in Rear.
Fire and Ice: Performing a blowjob with the mouth filled, alternately, with hot tea and ice.
FIV: Finger in Vagina, digital stimulations.
Five-O: A police officer (uniformed or undercover). This term dates back to de 70’s TV show “Hawaii 5-O”.
FJ: Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
FK: French Kissing.
FKK: Frei Körper Kultur, German nudist subculture.
FL: Free Lance.
Flake: One who exhibits flaky or erratic behavior. Normally used to describe Escorts or hobbyists who don’t show-up and/or arrive latte to the encounters.
FMF: Threesome designation: female, male, female.
FOB: Fresh off the boat, a recent immigrant.
FOTC: Fuck of The Century.
FOV: Finger Outside Vagina.
FR: Field Report, Fuck Review.
Foot fetish: High sexual interest in the shape, size, smell and other characteristic of the feet.
French: Oral stimulation of the penis.
French Kissing: Kissing on mouth with tongue contact
French letter: Condom.
FS: Full service, it simply means sexual intercourse (coitus) till the orgasm. In this particular case the moment won’t culminate with just oral sex or masturbation. Remember that this service is falsely offered in Asian massage parlors when in fact it just ends being a simple masturbation. service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion.
FTF: Fun To Fuck.
FUD: Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt. What some (idiot) posters try to spread when they post on public forums with false accusations.
Full Meal Deal: Sexual intercourse to completion.
FUTB: Finger Up the Butt.
Gayborhood: A gayborhood is a gay-friendly neighborhood or an area of town where all gays and lesbians are welcome and known to live.
Gaydar: The capacity to determine who is and isn’t gay.
Gay Dirt: An attractive young male used by the police as bate to homosexuals.
Gender Expression: The physical expression of one’s gender identity, normally through clothing, mannerisms, and chosen names.
Gender Identity: A person’s internal sense of being a man/woman or boy/girl. For transgender people, their gender identity does not match the gender with which they have been born.
Gender Identity Disorder: A term used by scientific community to classify people who are transgender or transsexual.
Gender Variance: Behavior that is different from what is traditionally defined as “masculine” in males and as “feminine” in females.
Genderqueer: Someone who transgresses boundaries of gender identity and sexual orientation.
Gentlemen Only: businessmen-only or professional-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting a “better” clientele.
Get Brain: Receive a blowjob.
Get Comfortable: Get filly naked.
GFE: See Top 10
GF3: Girlfriend experience with all three holes.
Girl Crush: When two women have strong feelings for each other, but not in a sexual way…
Glory hole: A literal hole in the wall between two rooms. The legendary purpose of this hole is to insert one’s penis to receive an anonymous (surprise surprise) handjob, blowjob or coitus.
GND: Girl Next Door.
Gokkon: A variety of fetish that involves swallowing and/or ingesting copious amounts of semen by either a man or a woman. See also bukkake.
Golden shower, GS: Urinating on your partner, urine play. See also water sports.
Gold Star Lesbian: A lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.
Gorean: A BDSM subculture owing its existence to the world of Gor from the novels by John Norman. Gorean philosophy assigns stereotypical, “natural” roles to genders.
Greek: anal sex; anal sexual intercourse; penetration of the anus by the penis.
GSM: G-Spot Massage.
H – K (Section 5: Escort Terms)
Half & Half: BJ followed by sexual intercourse.
Handballing: Inserting a fist into the anus.
Hard Sports: Playing with feces, also known as scat play or brown showers.
Hardwood Floors: Completely shaven pubic area.
Hasbian: A woman who used to be identified as a lesbian and dated women, but is now dating men.
HC: High Class.
HDH: High Dollar Hottie.
HE: Happy Ending: usually a hand job or a blowjob after a body massage.
HH: Half Hour.
HHHJ: Half Hearted Hand Job.
Hidden Charges: An Escort takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the middle of the session she asks for more money for additional services.
Hindu Massage: The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sexual intercourse to squeeze you to lead the you to completion (Argentina).
HJ or Handjob: Hand Masturbation; hand & finger stimulation of the penis by the Escort.
HM: High Mileage. A derogatory reference to the number of sexual partners a person may have had. Conveys an implication of showing the ‘wear and tear’ of the said mileage.
HME: Honeymoon Experience. Supposedly much better than a Girl Friend experience, but the real definition is very vague and nebulous. It is supposed to represent a session that is comparable to the intensity and passion of lovemaking while on one’s honeymoon for real.
Hobby: Slang, euphemistic reference to the business of a client enlisting the services of an Escort.
Hobbyist: Slang, euphemistic reference to one who (actively) participates in ‘the hobby‘.
Homophobia: Fear or disapproval of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.
Hostess Club: A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the club dancers is permitted, and some activities may occur on premises.
Hotdogging: The pseudo-sexual act of placing the penis between the butt cheeks of the receiving partner. The penis being the “Hotdog” and the butt cheeks serving as the “Bun”. There is no sexual penetration.
HTUMA: Her/His Tongue Up My Ass, analingus.
Humiliation: Actions aimed to cause a submissive a feeling they long after. These are the things they normally don’t do, like wearing bizarre clothing, having sex in public, playing puppy or pony, or accepting verbal abuse.
Hustler: A male prostitute. Same as punk.
HWP: Height and Weight Proportional. “Normal” body build.
Incall: Client meet the Escort at her location.
Independent, Indie: An Escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. In this particular situation the Escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.
Intersex: A person born with ambiguous genitalia or genitalia of both sexes. Can also be called an hermaphrodite.
IPO: Initial Public Offering (as in the Financial Markets), but in this context it means the public introduction of a new Escort, usually via a review.
ISO: In Search Of. A post/inquiry looking for something (presumably “something” very specific).
Italian: Similar to Russian, but the penis is placed between the partner’s butt cheeks. There is no sexual intercourse.
Jack Shack: An establishment that is not normally full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and hand job, but eventually more services might be available.
Jimmy Hat: A condom.
John: A man who patronizes prostitutes, a hobbyist.
K9: Canine, or doggy style position.
Kama Sutra or Kamasutra: The most famous book related to sex. A Sanskrit treatise setting forth rules for sensuous and sensual pleasure, love, and marriage in accordance with the Hindu laws.
KGFE: Korean GFE: with CBJ rather than BBBJ.
Kitty: Vagina and/or surrounding areas. The words you can expect to see used together with Kitty. are “bald”, “partly shaven”, “trimmed”, “natural”.